Counseling for High-Functioning Men in North Carolina and South Carolina for Drinking, Weed, Porn, or Gambling
Understand the pattern so your actions match your intentions
Many of the men I work with aren’t falling apart. They’re managing careers, relationships, and responsibilities while carrying more pressure than they let on. Over time certain habits become the way they shut that pressure off, even when they’ve told themselves they’ll handle it differently.
This work isn’t about forcing change. It’s about understanding what’s happening internally so your decisions start matching your intentions again.
When Things Look Fine But Feel Off
You’ve probably tried to reset a few times. Cut back for a week. Set rules. Decide it won’t keep happening. Then a stressful day, a long night, or just habit pulls you right back into the same routine.
It’s frustrating not because life is falling apart, but because your actions don’t line up with what you actually intended to do.
Why the Pattern Keeps Repeating
These habits usually serve a purpose. They slow your mind down, shut stress off, or give a break from constant pressure. Because the relief works in the moment, the brain keeps returning to it even after you’ve decided to change.
That’s why willpower resets rarely last. The habit isn’t random, it’s solving something, just not in a way that holds up long term.
How Counseling Helps You Regain Control
We focus on understanding when the pull shows up and interrupting it earlier, before the decision feels automatic. Instead of reacting afterward, you learn to notice the moment it starts and respond differently.
The goal isn’t perfection. It’s consistency, clearer thinking, more intentional decisions, and fewer resets.
What Starts to Change
Over time you may notice:
• Less mental back-and-forth about whether to do it
• Fewer situations where habits feel automatic
• More follow-through on what you decided earlier
• Better focus and emotional steadiness
• Stronger presence in daily life and relationships
Change tends to feel gradual but stable rather than dramatic and temporary.
My Approach
I work with men who are functioning in daily life but want more control and clarity internally. Sessions are conversational, practical, and focused on understanding patterns rather than assigning labels.
You don’t have to be completely certain you want to stop a behavior to begin. Many men start because they want to understand what’s happening and decide intentionally what comes next.
Start with a Conversation
You don’t need a plan before reaching out. The first step is simply talking through what’s been happening and whether this approach feels useful for you.
DOT Return-to-Duty SAP Evaluations
I also provide DOT-qualified SAP evaluations for safety-sensitive employees in North Carolina and South Carolina. This is a compliance service, not counseling, and follows the DOT return-to-duty process: evaluation, required education or treatment recommendations, and eligibility determination.
About Three Corners Counseling
Three Corners Counseling provides virtual addiction and behavioral counseling for men across North Carolina and South Carolina. I work with men who are functioning in daily life but privately struggling with alcohol use, marijuana use, or compulsive behaviors, and who want support that is practical, direct, and non-judgmental.
I’m David Newson, a Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist (LCAS) and Licensed Addiction Counselor (LAC), offering secure online counseling with flexible scheduling. I accept select insurance plans and also offer straightforward private-pay options, with the goal of making high-quality care accessible without the corporate feel of large treatment centers.
My approach blends clinical training with lived experience. I spent 11 years in active addiction, so I understand what it’s like to feel stuck, defensive, or unsure where to start, and I also know what meaningful change can look like when the right support is in place.
In addition to counseling, I also provide DOT-qualified SAP evaluations for safety-sensitive employees and employers in North Carolina and South Carolina. These services are separate from counseling and focused strictly on DOT and FMCSA compliance.
Whether you’re actively ready for change or simply trying to understand what isn’t working, I’ll meet you with clarity, respect, and zero judgment.
Consultation Required Before Starting Services
I require a brief consultation before any service begins to make sure this is the right fit for your needs.
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David Newson, MS, LCAS, LAC, SAP
LCAS - #29268
LAC - #951
SAP - #174936
828-519-0479 (Call or Text)
davidnewson@threecornerscounselingnc.com
6 am - 8 pm, 7 days a week
